Girls…………would you be scared if a guy said this to you??????????

Okay, I’m a guy and I’m a sophmore in high school. I have a hard time starting a conversation with a girl. But once I’m in one, I usually always can make the girl laugh and have a good time and stuff.

So I thought of this…which is kind of like a “pickup line” but I don’t know, so girls what do you think?

Heres an example situation.

During lunch, I see a good lookng girl a few tables across. She’s sitting with her friends, and I walk over. I say something like”

“Hey, I know this is a little random, but I just want to let you know that I think your pretty cute.”

Girls….if a guy said this to you, how would you feel? Would your reaction depend on how the guy was? If the guy was good looking or bad looking” Or would you not care and just take the complaiment and say thank you?

Remember this is some total stranger that you have no idea about.

Comments (50)

 

  1. Mel says:

    yeah this has happened to me before. i didn’t find it weird. haha

  2. jon says:

    i’m a guy but trust me..don’t do that.

  3. heidi :] says:

    i would go, “uhm…thanks?”

  4. Sania M says:

    i would take it as a compliment. because you did not say anything to creepy

  5. Luke says:

    I’d feel fine why?

  6. Sarah S says:

    Awww!!! I’d be flattered!!!!
    Kinda creeped out though
    But flattered and i would feel special!!!

  7. ♥cali_chick♥ says:

    if he was cute i would most likely flirt back

  8. lorennn;) says:

    i would be happy. im a freshman and would be flatered;D
    i wish a cute guy would tell me that

    mine?
    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AoJ_M570.q7sh._gTa6N_LLsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080922154028AAS8nDz

  9. Wray G says:

    I would find that creepy. Try to be more casual. get to know the person. You just have to work on talking to girls.

  10. panicitscassy says:

    if you were hot, id ask you to sit with me,
    if i thought you looked like a nice kid i would too.
    but if you are kinda like a creeper id tell you to go away, and if this girl is really pretty and such she probably will be the same way.

  11. tee. says:

    ok if the guys hot i’d prob love it lol
    but if i hardly no him and hes ok looking i’d prob think hes a bit strange

  12. Susie says:

    It would be a compliment. I would say “thank you”. Give it a try.

  13. kallie says:

    I’d probably be a little creeped…but maybe ultimately say thanks for the compliment.

  14. Lola says:

    it would definitely depend on how cute the guy was, and how confident he was when he said it.

  15. joseandmaegan says:

    honestly every girl has doubt bout there appearance so if you say that it would flatter her:)

  16. rocker_girl says:

    that’s not weird. kinda cute.

  17. autumn attack! says:

    it might be a little startling definitely.
    but if the guy was cute and said it with confidence it might be cute =]

  18. Sierra says:

    I don’t think that’s creepy at all. If a guy said that to me and just walked away, I’d be super flattered AND I’d know he’s confident, which is sexy. It would also leave me curious and wanting more information. You’d be almost certain that she’d come talk to you in the future.

    Try it!

  19. Stacie M says:

    Depends on the person you do it to,

    i’d take it as a compliment.

  20. **TexasChick** says:

    well a girl and a freshmen, I will just go away because I cant trust anyone older than me @ high school

  21. jayyx3babe says:

    personaly id fel specilal loll

  22. lewislola95 says:

    i would take it as a compliment, but if you were “geeky”, then i’d be embarrassed. you should post a pic to see what u like like so we could tell. good luck

  23. oosmileoo19 says:

    it would be okay but make sure she is interested in you first…
    help with mine?
    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AkLXcYmXRcxcMuz4SrRfAKTsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080922152843AAbb3zx

  24. lalala says:

    to be honest, it could go either way. if the guy is cute and charming, then that would be a nice compliment. but if he’s a creeper and says it in a way that just makes you feel uncomfortable, i’d just be really turned off.

  25. Gonna be Mrs.Whitaker 07.25.09 says:

    I’ve had guys do that. It actually turns a girl off when a guy does all the chasing. Don’t be hard to get and I do agree to pursue her a little bit but not too much.

    When guys did that to me, I was weirded out. I don’t think I’d date a guy who said that. I’d take the compliment, say thanks, and be on my way.

  26. Unplastic Barbie says:

    I would most likely blush and feel very flattered and giggle a little and then say thank you.

    but if the guy was creepy… thats a whole other story.

    if you’re not creepy, go for it.

  27. Andrea says:

    well if someone said that to me, i’d be a little embarrased only because i’m shy. but yeah, it is nice to hear a random compliment from someone you don’t know. i’m sure it would make her feel good about herself. anyways, i think it depends on the girl.

  28. katylady says:

    haha my school is massive and that happens a lot. just dont do it when any guys are around her cause they get pissed. nah it isnt weird at all its actully really nice that guys have the confidence to tell girls that in front of her friends.
    answer mine?
    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ApOKalEFu2En97dgPzUoSdjsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080922150122AAYVxO3

  29. ellie says:

    i would love it if a boy said this to me. stranger or no stranger. if he was good looking i would flirt back. if he was like completely hideous i would just smile and say thanks. but it’s definately not creepy at all.

  30. Mandy says:

    Kinda depends on the girl. Just be careful who yerr saying it to…
    Liie with me i wud smile and say thank you. Probly compliment back.
    Some gir;s might give u a weird/dirty look
    Soo make sure u no the girls personality a lil bit

  31. Meli! says:

    I would say thank you and then return to what i was doing, unless you continued a conversation.

  32. ( * . * ) says:

    Thats happended to me, I think its cute! i also like it when the boy has enough guts to come over and say something and start a conversation. Its also a plus if hes cute =]

  33. mysapark says:

    The girl would most likely take it as a compliment but you then would not be datable material. Too nice.

  34. Kid26 says:

    if it was some stranger i would probably be creeped out at first but i would take the compliment and say thank you. and i would probably try to get his name and just the basic stuff if i thought he was an ok guy of course. then possibly after i got used to the guy i might start to like him idk it would depend on his attitude and how he acts

  35. sustasue says:

    It’s one of the oldest pick up lines in the book and therefore it goes without saying, that it’s tired. Pretty girls get told that they’re pretty all the time. It gets boring. Try to come up with something a little more unique and personal. Trust. ‘;-()

  36. *Twilight* says:

    I’d be polite and say thank you, but I now matter how good he looked, I would think that he was odd/creepy. Get to know the girl first, then use that line over time. It’s nice, but not a good thing to say right off of the bat. Hoped I helped! :)

  37. blurplegurl says:

    My reaction wouldn’t really depend on how good-looking the guy was. If he said it sincerely (without laughing or anything) then I’d definitely thank him and I might even talk to him some more. And if I liked him then I might even give him my number. But some girls aren’t like me. I know ALOT of girls who would only talk to the guy if he was cute, otherwise they’d comepletely ignore the guy.

  38. jennifer h says:

    Yeah that would be weird for her especially if she around a group of her friends. Don’t do that youll embarass yourself. Try talking to her in the hallways.

  39. HSMfreakk4663 says:

    Uh… it depends. It’s cute. Like, it’s not a creepy or dorky or cheesy pick-up line. But if you think too hard about it, and you try saying it, you might mess it up and it will SOUND like you planned it. So watch out. If your good-looking she’ll probably want to bang you right then and there because its such a nice thing to say and people don’t normally get that very much because nobody gives compliments anymore except the really nice people. So uhh..yeah. Try it!

    Good luck =]

  40. Claire says:

    Some girls I know would be mean about it…but I would take it as a compliment…just don’t concentrate on her for a while after or else she’ll get all conceited and think she has a new stalker…don’t be stalkerish! If you’re cute you can pull it off, just make sure it is a girl that looks nice.

  41. confusedyahoouser says:

    ok well im a feshmen girl and i would be really like freaked out at first and then later be like totally excited. once someone said that to me id be like ummm thanks….. whats ur name? and stuff like that. but thats just me. who knows what others girls wwould do. depends on the girl…. good luck! the point is that you had enough guts in the first place!

  42. Dslitegamer2008 says:

    I think you have to start off slow like, talk to her first and get to know her. But I would think that is a compliment….go ahead, go with your gut instinct.

  43. *Chantal* says:

    oh cool ima sophomore too *2011* :) lol anyways well i would be ok with it and think it was cute and sweet as long as the guy didnt look like a psycho or anything and close to my age or in the teens i actually think thats a good line to start off with and if you can make me laugh you get extra points well the guy would if that ever happened to me. So no, i wouldnt be scared :)

  44. ★♫☠ Crazy_Sarah☠♫ ★ says:

    ld say thank you.
    Alot of girls will say eww if a ugly person told them that,but inside the girl will feel all happy.
    Trust me my friend does that all the time.
    So i think you should go for it.
    Good luck!

  45. number1wingsfan says:

    now that i’m older, i would take it as a compliment and say thank you…but as a teenager, i would be embarassed. my suggestion is ditch the pickup lines, talk from the heart, and let the conversation fall where it does

  46. LoVeLy says:

    Unfortunately most girls would go based on what they see, (what you look like) and then react. I would suggest you do this to a girl on her own and not with a bunch of friends around. but if someone did this to me while in hs alone i would be flattered and be like well thank you… maybe you can ask if you can walker to class and ask what her name is before you try and compliment her……

  47. Kell says:

    oh um wow.
    taking from MY view, I would be freaked out that a guy would just randomly come to me and say I’m cute. If it was someone i know, then it’s an entirely different story.
    What I think you should do is be brave, go up to the girl, and make friends with her first. Then you can go on and tell her how insanely cute she is ;) lol. btw im a sophmore also. :) so dont get caught up with girls. Focus on your school work also!

  48. Kaitlynne says:

    If the stranger was cute, clean looking, and normal, then I would have no problem with it.

    However, something like this happened to me today. But the kid was fat, creepy, and just weird… so THAT I found annoying and very creepy.

    So to answer your question, it depends on what the guy is like overall! Hope I helped!

    Oh, and since your a guy, answer my question too please!
    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aqtd_ZrDlx2ybQTmPohlrUbsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080922153336AATwO3T

  49. karen says:

    id be flattered! although id probably blush and not know what to say back :) ahah

    answer mine please? i really need your answer since your a highschool guy!
    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AtNvsxXDLfqXy2eqnriBMN3sy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080922140503AACflGw

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